Frequently Asked Questions
Curious about our world of words, pages, and shirts? We’ve gathered the top questions we get about the blog, our books, and those awesome t-shirts. Check out the answers below—and if you’re still wondering something, drop us a line! - Upton Rand
GayMensFieldGuide FAQ

Who's behind the blog and the shop?
That’s me, Upton Rand, running this show solo. I’m the guy writing the blog posts, sketching out shirt designs, and keeping this dream kicking. Originally from Michigan, I’m now in Ohio, pouring my soul into this since l started it last year following my divorce from a real dream-boat.. lol
Why did you start GayMensFieldGuide.com?
In 2024, my divorce left me staring at empty walls and a hollowed-out life. I needed something real to grab onto. So, I started Gay Men’s Field Guide as my anchor—a spot for me and any LGBTQ+ folks to stand tall, especially with today’s political shit-show.
What the blog all about
It’s my raw, no-filter look at life as a gay guy—messy, real, and scrappy. Last month, I blogged about panicking over a car repair, worried the mechanic might gouge me just for being gay. I ended up fixing it myself—proof we can tackle anything. Documented the whole damn chaos.
Blog & Store FAQ
How often do you post?
We share fresh content at least once a week, so you can count on new reads to inspire your blog, book, or t-shirt obsession!
Why is this blog unique?
Run by a gay small business owner and entrepreneur, we’re a bilingual blog sharing high-quality, free content weekly—welcoming everyone, curious or gay, to explore blogs, books, and t-shirts!
Blog Accessability
We’re proud to meet WCAG 2.3 AA standards for accessibility and offer content in two languages, so more readers can enjoy our posts about blogs, books, and t-shirts!
Shipping and Returns Policy
Shipping
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Shipping is on us! We offer free economy shipping on all orders within the United States.
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Timing: Expect your gear to arrive in about 5-7 business days, though it might take a bit longer depending on where you are.
Returns
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30-Day Window: Not feeling it? You’ve got 30 days from purchase to return your item.
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Condition: Keep it unworn, unwashed, and with the tags still on. We can’t take back anything that’s been through the ringer.
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Special Note: Our printer doesn’t handle returns, but I’ve got your back—I’ll take them on personally to make sure you’re happy.
How to Return
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Reach Out: Shoot me an email at contact@gaymensfieldguide.com with your order number and why you’re sending it back.
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Get Instructions: I’ll reply with the return details.
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Pack It Up: Box it up with your receipt or order confirmation and ship it to the address I provide.
Return Shipping
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Your Cost: You’ll cover the return shipping, unless we messed up.
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Our Mistake: Got a defective or wrong item? Let me know, and I’ll send you a prepaid label—no hassle.
Refunds
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Processing: Once your return lands with me, I’ll get your refund sorted in about 5-7 business days.
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Payment: It’ll go right back to your original method.
Exchanges
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No Direct Swaps: We don’t do exchanges straight-up right now. Just return the item and grab the new size or style you want with a fresh order.
Questions?
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Get in Touch: Hit me up at contact@gaymensfieldguide.com if anything’s off or you just want to chat about your order.