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Upton's 5 Gay Dating Rules (Navigating Dating Dealbreakers)
In my 20s, I had a ridiculous list of five rules that every guy had to meet in order for me to date them. It was stupid and these are them..
Jun 27 min read


Between Structure and Spark - A Guest Post From Abroad on Gay Bondage
We met in the soft noise of a crowded mixer at CLAW. Upton approached with something rare: not the overstated confidence I often see, but a kind of clarity. He was energised. Frank. There was no mask of protocol or pretence—just a man alert to the possibility of the space.
May 163 min read


Locked and Loaded: My Week in a Chastity Cage as a gay guy.
Locked my junk for a week! ‘Dick fashion show’ to work mishaps, this gay kink tale is wild. Laugh & learn about male chastity now
May 68 min read


My Demisexual Expierience Volunteering at Horsemarket Gay Orgy
Horse Market is the hottest international gay orgy that you may have never heard of. Here’s the concept. There are 4 rolls in attendance at every event. So listen (or read) up.
Mares - the bottoms at the orgy
Stallions - the tops at the orgy.
Stable Hands - the volunteers at the orgy.
Stable Master- the orgies organizer.
Apr 2410 min read


Dating After a Gay Breakup: Are You Ready For Your Next Gay Relationship?
A year post-divorce, I sat in a Boston podcast studio, mic glaring like it dared me to spill. The host grinned, “Single or seeing anyone?”
Apr 102 min read


Navigating LGBTQ+ Healthcare as a Gay Man: Specialized Care for Our Community
LGBTQ+ health care for gay men matters. Learn about specialized gay men’s health services, PrEP access, STI testing, mental health care.
Mar 134 min read


Gay Men’s Rites of Passage: Finding Community, Brotherhood, and Belonging
Discover the rites of passage that unite gay men—how finding community builds strength, brotherhood, and belonging in today’s world.
Mar 134 min read


Letting Go: Why Strong People Crave Surrender in Intimacy
Strong in life, but when do you get to let go? If you’re always the one keeping things together, making decisions, and making sure…
Mar 72 min read


Nude Yoga for Men: A Raw, Sweaty Journey of Masculine Energy and Sensual Surrender - Nude Male Yoga - gaymensfieldguide.com
Stepping into the warm, sweat-filled studio, my heart pounds with excitement. I’m already naked, and I'm at my male nude yoga class.
Feb 264 min read


A Tale of Two Decisions: My Circumcision Story
My story about my decision to become circumcised as an 18-year-old young adult, a full walk-through
Feb 115 min read


The Man, The Myth, The Legend: Horst Schultz and the World’s most powerful ejaculation.
The short stories of Horst Schultz. The man with a cannon in between his legs. read hus story with gay mens field guide.
Feb 92 min read


Demisexual - AKA that one disease named after the crazy face in the Substance.
As for me, well, "Demisexual" (the disorder named after crazy-face from the substance) - not so bad! We even have our cute little flag
Feb 93 min read


In Defence of Open Relationships
open relationships get a bad rap sometimes, especially in the gay community. People are quick to throw shade, but they can be amazing
Oct 9, 20242 min read
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